Moving with your family ensures that your life will likely be fulfilled with support - or disturbance, depending upon how you view your family’s input -either way, its worth it, once you find clear and consistent boundaries.
One time i had a german wife, and as we planned the Umzug it has been planned the same way as you would do it for any other move - but remember, the more
you’re moving, the more petrol you’ll need. I did not think about what a 400 mile move will end up in costing for me. It would be better and more intelligent to use an Umzugsunternehmen.